Popular relationship therapist and social media personality, Blessing CEO, has stirred conversation online with a no-holds-barred message about love, emotional healing, and the impact of past trauma on relationships.
In a heartfelt video shared via Instagram, the outspoken coach addressed why many people struggle to experience or trust love, attributing it to unresolved emotional wounds and harmful conditioning from past experiences.
“A lot of you are damaged,” she said. “When you’re damaged, everything beautiful feels too good to be true.”
Blessing emphasized that being “damaged” isn’t a judgment but a consequence of internalized pain that remains unhealed. Speaking directly to those who have become cynical or closed off to love, she pointed out how repeated exposure to negativity—especially on blogs and social media—can distort our perception of healthy relationships.
“The reason you’re damaged is because you never took the lesson from the experience. Once you learn from it, you find peace,” she explained.
She also called on her audience to avoid generalizing based on isolated bad encounters, stressing that not all men or women are inherently “wicked.” Instead, she argued, it’s about the individual choices people make in their relationships.
“Men are not wicked. Women are not wicked. It’s the people you choose that create your experience,” she said.
Blessing concluded her message with an uplifting reminder rooted in both personal reflection and spiritual insight:
“Love is beautiful. The only problem is, you don’t believe you deserve it. But you do.”
Her blunt but compassionate video has sparked debate and encouragement across social media, resonating with many who are navigating their own journey toward emotional healing and self-worth.
