A Nigerian woman, Hadiza Garba, has sparked conversations online after advising married women on ways to keep their husbands s3xually satisfied in order to prevent infidelity.
Garba, in a Facebook post on Monday, September 22, stressed that marital intimacy is not a sin and warned women not to allow their husbands to find satisfaction outside the home.
According to her:
“Dear sisters, Marital S3x is not a sin! Never permit your husband to sleep around; he’s only permitted to sleep around you! Never allow his secretary to take your position! Give him enough sex! Dress seductively for your husband! If you are alone in the house, put on skimpy dresses, sexy underwears; dress to kill him at home before a strange woman kills him outside! Stop tying wrapper round your waist, it makes you look like a village woman! Dress up in front of him! Walk naked in front of him! Have you read that ‘they were naked and were not ashamed?’ He is your husband for God’s sake! Don’t be ashamed to flirt with your husband!”
She further encouraged wives to be adventurous and open in the bedroom, saying women should not act shy when it comes to satisfying their husbands.
“Bath together! Eat together! Play together! Get involved in kissing, massaging, fondling! Make it a habit to sleep without panties except during menstruation. Invite him for a s3x-filled night! Tell him you will win him on bed today! Make it a habit to communicate with him about your s3x life! Be creative!
“Do different style that’s convenient for both of you! It is not a sin! Appreciate him as you make love together, never keep quiet as if your mouth is padlocked! Don’t lie down like a dead wood and tell him to hurry up! No man will love to have a ‘bedroom failure’ as a wife! Enjoy your marriage. Send this to married men and women who wish to be married. Advice.”
Her post has generated mixed reactions, with some applauding her boldness while others questioned whether marital s3xual satisfaction alone can stop infidelity.
